Share it Please
I tried to check up on a few people that started around the same time I did and shockingly realized that most of them stopped blogging.
So I thought to myself, why did these people stop?
What makes people give up their blogs?
It's not like I haven't thought about quitting multiple times. Mostly, it's the pressure. As a blogger you feel like you:
- have to keep up with what other people are reading
- provide constant, regular content
- queue content!
- constantly comment/promote yourself if you don't want your views to dwindle
- also balance review copies on top of that
It's hard. It's basically like a second job. Some bloggers make me feel like I'm doing to little, from those genius hard-working people who always comment back, to those that seem to be either tweeting 24/7 or always taking beautiful pictures. I salute to you guys, I don't know how you do it, but you can be proud of yourselves.
Give me the number of your fairy godmother please
What you miss out on if you quit
That all does sound very discouraging, I know. However, I would never dare to say that I regret starting this blog. You know why? Because there are so, so many rewarding things I love about blogging. Here's what I love. Here's what you'll be missing out on when you quit:
- Being able to show your blog off in a couple of years time and being able to say, hey, I've been doing this for years. You can be proud for sticking around, for being an absolute badass.
- Socializing. Online friendships. Meeting people you wouldn't have met otherwise.
- Free books (duh)
- A loving, truly kind community that will forgive you even if you need to take a break for a couple of months. We'll welcome you with open arms no matter what and do you want to leave that behind?
Of course we've probably all at some point asked ourselves whether it's all worth it. The truth is, blogging isn't for everyone and that is absolutely okay. If you don't want to do this anymore for what reason ever, don't feel bad. But do know that there is nothing stopping you from taking a hiatus whenever you feel like you need it, for what reason ever that may be.