Showing posts with label academic. Show all posts
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Tuesday, November 1, 2016

[Review] Modern Romance - Aziz Ansari: Digital Age and Dating

In MODERN ROMANCE Comedian Aziz Ansari explores the peculiarities of dating in the age of technology.

What intrigued me: I was in the mood for some Non-Fiction.

More academic than funny

MODERN ROMANCE reads more like a sociological study than a humorous little book peaking fun at dating habits in the 2010s. Undeniably a lot of work went into this as most chapters contain the outcomes of multiple surveys and interviews with people from different age groups. While that is quite the interesting premise, I feel like MODERN ROMANCE would have benefitted more from mixing humor with anecdotes exlusively. Aziz is incredibly funny and MODERN ROMANCE just doesn't embrace that.

Knowing Ansari's stand-up I was hoping for basically a novelized version of one of his performances. Lots of stories, lots of fun things to laugh about. This absolutely isn't what MODERN ROMANCE is, it's an academic study in my opinion that doesn't quite committ. 

Decent Bedside Table Read

It's half anecdotes half academic text and this is just not a flattering combination. I ended up skimming many passages simply because I wasn't interested. It truly does read like a lecture, which isn't surprising since this book has been co-written with a sociology professor. 

Initially MODERN ROMANCE lures you in with pretending to focus primarly on the digital age- which is why I picked it up - but essentially it compares generations. I'm not quite sure what MODERN ROMANCE is trying to do, it certainly doesn't deliver any new revelations that you didn't know if you grew up in the last 20th century. Ultimately I do think aside from a bedside table read that you can skim through whenever you're feeling like you need a light distraction, it's probably just a pick for people who really love Aziz Ansari.


Rating:

★★½

 



Overall: Do I Recommend?

MODERN ROMANCE is a well-researched book and has its fun moments, but ultimately wasn't quite what I expected and disappointed me through being more academic than funny. If you don't mind that, MODERN ROMANCE still makes for a nice bedside table read.



Additional Info

Published: 19th September 2016
Pages: 352
Publisher: Goldmann
Genre: Adult / Non-Fiction / Sociology
ISBN: 978-3-442-17619-9

Synopsis:
"At some point, every one of us embarks on a journey to find love. We meet people, date, get into and out of relationships, all with the hope of finding someone with whom we share a deep connection. This seems standard now, but it’s wildly different from what people did even just decades ago. Single people today have more romantic options than at any point in human history. With technology, our abilities to connect with and sort through these options are staggering. So why are so many people frustrated?

Some of our problems are unique to our time. “Why did this guy just text me an emoji of a pizza?” “Should I go out with this girl even though she listed Combos as one of her favorite snack foods? Combos?!” “My girlfriend just got a message from some dude named Nathan. Who’s Nathan? Did he just send her a photo of his penis? Should I check just to be sure?” 

But the transformation of our romantic lives can’t be explained by technology alone. In a short period of time, the whole culture of finding love has changed dramatically. A few decades ago, people would find a decent person who lived in their neighborhood. Their families would meet and, after deciding neither party seemed like a murderer, they would get married and soon have a kid, all by the time they were twenty-four. Today, people marry later than ever and spend years of their lives on a quest to find the perfect person, a soul mate.

For years, Aziz Ansari has been aiming his comic insight at modern romance, but for Modern Romance, the book, he decided he needed to take things to another level. He teamed up with NYU sociologist Eric Klinenberg and designed a massive research project, including hundreds of interviews and focus groups conducted everywhere from Tokyo to Buenos Aires to Wichita. They analyzed behavioral data and surveys and created their own online research forum on Reddit, which drew thousands of messages. They enlisted the world’s leading social scientists, including Andrew Cherlin, Eli Finkel, Helen Fisher, Sheena Iyengar, Barry Schwartz, Sherry Turkle, and Robb Willer. The result is unlike any social science or humor book we’ve seen before."(Source: Goodreads)


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Thursday, September 8, 2016

Recommendation: Wrecked - Maria Padian: Sexual Assault in College





In WRECKED, Jenny gets sexually assaulted at a party, but the people around her are too preoccupied with their own lives to get what's going on.

What intrigued me: I usually don't go for novels with themes like these, I wanted to step out of my comfort zone.

Smart and Compelling

WRECKED is an incredibly unique read. It's written in multiple perspectives from people who in some way are connected to Jenny and the rape. Padian cleverly gives all of them their own struggles, their own little problems that make it easy to ignore what's happening outside of that. 

Each storyline is compelling in its own: Haley, who gets benched in her soccer team after a live-threatening concussion; and Richard, who just got dumped by Carrie whom he desperately wants to win back. I was invested in their struggles and it's such a smart way to illustrate what happens in real life as well. People are just preoccupied with their own lives. So smart, such a fantastic metaphor.

WRECKED is essentially a guessing game, even though it seems obvious at first, you'll constantly feel insecure in your perception of what actually happened. It's definitely one of those books that you have to read multiple times to fully get the whole picture.

Literary and Character-Driven

The writing is also extraordinary and another reason why I'm very sure WRECKED will go on to win a couple literary awards in the future. It's very literary, very much character-driven with a very strange, unique narrative voice in each POV. The narration flip flops back and forth between past and present and uses flashbacks to give background information. Normally, this wouldn't work. For Padian it does. I have no idea how. 

Exactly this contributes to the icky feeling I had while reading. There are constantly new thing revealed about the people involved and you never know what to think or whom to trust. I grew especially invested in Richard's storyline, the boy that's so blinded by his love for his ex-girlfriend that he doesn't realize it's an obsession. It's weird to be on the other side of a situation that I'm sure many girls out there have experienced - dating the boy who just doesn't take no for an answer. 

The story in itself is just so compelling and it's absolute word magic to convey this serious topic in such a subtle way, yet make it so obvious that the reader knows what happened from page five on. Just fantastic.


Rating:

★★★★

 



Overall: Do I Recommend?

WRECKED is a very important book that should be compulsory reading at every school. An absolute recommendation if you don't mind YA that's on the literary side.



Additional Info

Published: October 4th 2016
Pages: 368
Publisher: Algonquin
Genre: YA / Contemporary
ISBN: 9781616206246

Synopsis:
"Everyone has heard a different version of what happened that night at MacCallum College. Haley was already in bed when her roommate, Jenny, arrived home shell-shocked from the wild Conundrum House party. Richard heard his housemate Jordan brag about the cute freshman he hooked up with. When Jenny formally accuses Jordan of rape, Haley and Richard find themselves pushed onto opposite sides of the school’s investigation. But conflicting interests fueling conflicting versions of the story may make bringing the truth to light nearly impossible--especially when reputations, relationships, and whole futures are riding on the verdict."
(Source: Goodreads)


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